Gaana Aaye Ya Na Aaye.....

Gaana Chaahiye....

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Last weekend two of my friends, Rachana and Rohit celebrated their 6th wedding anniversary. The couple invited a few of us to their house for a party. The party was great fun. At one point during the party, Rachana requested that Rohit sing a song for her. After initial hesitation, finally Rohit sang one of Mohammed Raffi's classic songs - 'Teri Pyaari Pyaari Soorath Ko, Kisi Ki Nazar Na Lagey....'' .  As Rohit started singing, all the girls in the room went awwwwww......and the men just kept cheering for Rohit. Rachana said Rohit's song meant more than his presents for her. Once again all of us went aww........ 

It was indeed an awww...moment and all of us thought that Rohit sings slightly better than Himesh Reshammiya! If Himesh can sell records, so can Rohit if he wants to!! We pulled Rohit's leg but also commended him for keeping Rachana's request and more importantly for singing it from his heart for his beloved.

Later that afternoon when Rachana was in the kitchen preparing evening tea for all of us, Rohit said to us, '' Thank you for putting up with my 'besura' aawaaz'. I just had one thing to say to Rohit - Biwi Ki Baaton Ko Nahi Taalna..Chahiye. Gaana Aaye Ya Na Aaye, Gaana....Chahiye!

Phir kab aaoge???

“What will be the next seven days like? Ramaaa.....Krishnaa …help me pull it off well’’ prayed Devi as she waited at the arrivals lounge of the Bengaluru International airport to receive her mausi ke nanand ki devraani ke behan ke devar ki Saali - Sona and her family who were flying from the United States of America. Devi and Sona have been in conversation with each other for the last 7 years and they have developed a very close telephonic relationship. They made plans to visit each other on two prior occasions but it did not materialise until now. 

Devi had not slept well the previous night, partly due to the excitement of seeing Sona and  partly because of the nervousness of entertaining her NRI guests. In fact, Devi had been having sleepless nights for  weeks worrying how Sona would view her small  middle class 2BHK apartment in BTM Layout. Devi had made plans for each day of Sona’s visit - be it visiting relatives or shopping at Bangalore Central or a dinner at Leela Palace. She was going to show the best of Bangalore to Sona and her family so that they felt at home and did not miss the comforts of the USA. She had also made plans for the food that she was going to cook for the guests which should include breakfast lunch and dinner (with her latest Italian and Chinese recipes that she downloaded from Vah Chef and Show me the Curry on Youtube ). Devi had in particular requested Shantamma, the maid servant to come twice a day and had promised her Rupees 1000/ extra in addition to the American chocolates that Devi was sure that Sona would bring.

Devi got ready very early in the morning to get to airport to receive Sona and her family. Devi was at the airport an hour before Sona’s flight had landed up. She saw the arrivals timetable and learned that Sona’s flight was arriving an hour later.Yet she stood at the arrivals lounge and jumped with excitement every time the door opened and a passenger walked out. For Devi this was the longest wait ever.

Finally, the wait was over and Sona and her family arrived. Devi greeted them with a warm smile and a big bear hug. After loading the luggage, Devi’s husband drove all of them home in their Maruti Swift (It had taken Devi all of 3 years to change her husband’s mind to buy a new car and it had arrived just a month before Sona’s arrival).  

Next morning Devi was surprised to see Sona come into the kitchen just as she had woken up to help her with the cooking. Sona seemed to like the Indian cuisines more than anything else and hence dosas were prepared and Sona herself made a wonderful sambar to go along side it. Sona preferred to eat without knife and fork the simple south Indian food like rasam and rice with a pallya/upperi and a crispy karum kurum kerala papad. As a treat Sona would rather prefer the Mirch Masala on 7^th Main Road or Woodies than the posh Leela Palace that Devi had planned to take Sona.

Sona helped Devi in her household chores. She spent more time chatting with Devi than going to movies or shopping around in Lifestyle and Bangalore Central. Sona had no airs about living in the USA and most importantly she did not criticise Bangalore’s traffic or pollution. The week long trip was one of the best that Devi had had when guests visited her. In fact, Sona was no longer a guest but she had become family to Devi.

Sona is now back on the Lufthansa 924 to Boston and all she can think of is Devi’s kind hospitality and the good time that Devi’s family showed her and her family during their stay in India. As for Devi, she is now back to doing her household chores and cooking Rasam and Pallya before her husband gets home for lunch but she cannot stop thinking about the last few days she spent with Sona and she is wondering ….PHIR KAB AAOGE??

F.R.I.E.N.D.S.....I'll be there for you.....

............When the rain starts to pour

I'll be there for you, like I've been there before.

I'll be there for you, cause you're there for me too.... 

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After an hour long conversation with my friend who lives in India, I have just come off the phone. I do not get to talk to her often. Nether do I get a chance to see her every time I visit India. Yet, she is one true friend who has always been with me and I know she will be with me forever. She can listen to what I don’t say .

Looking back, I realise, I made some friends, lost some friends, and then made some more, lost some more and......This is pretty much the same with every one of us, isn’t it?  Friends come, friends go. Sometimes we do the leaving, sometimes we are left behind. Yet, all of us have few very special friends who have been with us always and will be with us forever.

True friends are hard to come by. If you have a true friend/s treat them as special. Several years from now,  if you were to look back, you might still find them with you.